badgolferman
2024-04-16 12:07:40 UTC
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Permalinkwho needed a ride to a meeting. My wife doesn't like to go out at
night and since I usually do, I offered to ride with her and pick up
the woman. Shortly before we left she received a text message from the
woman with all these expectations of us, i.e. be on time, no weapons,
no harm, etc.
We arrived in the bad section of town and a woman was waiting for us.
She must have been late 50's or early 60's. She was dressed in a
strapless colorful dress with colorful makeup and lipstick lines
painted like cat whiskers on her face. She carried two large bags and
a loud phone playing music into my car. It turns out this woman has
been picked up by Linda's sponsees before and has a reputation for
being difficult. Her name is Valerie.
We arrived at the meeting early so Linda got a meeting directory and
personally went around to other women for their phone numbers to give
her. During this time Valerie was outside smoking, playing her loud
music and singing. As people arrived they all looked her over and
tried to move on.
As we were leaving and headed back to her house, she thanked Linda for
getting the phone numbers. Then she proceeded to give advice to Linda
about AA, not knowing that she's been sober for 37 years. She
complained that she's been in our area for eight years and has trouble
getting rides. I wanted to tell her if she wasn't such an attention
whore and weirdo maybe it would be different, but I didn't.
Would it have been wrong for me to say that? People in my day didn't
mind saying what you needed to hear.